Love and Death

in E. B. Browning and Christina Rossetti poetry

 

 

The aim of this paper is to analyse the work of Elizabeth Barrett Browning and Christina Rossetti and establish if since they belonged to the same period of time they therefore focus their work on the same topics and in the same way. In order to do this we will focus in two topics that I think that represent the main ideas of these two authors: Love and Death.

 

The reason why I have chosen these two authors is because I think that the fact that women began to express their feelings for the first time is very important not only for poetry but also for arts in general.

During all the past periods, women were only present in poetry through men; in other words, men invented women’ voices imagining them saying what they longed to hear.  (1)

In the Victorian era, women discovered their power not only as a passive object that is described in order to create beauty: they used their own voice to show the world their feelings and their thoughts, and therefore they proved they can be exactly as complex as a man. Moreover, as Mrs Craik points out, women started to think independently from men and they realized that they were no less than men, each of them a distinct existence. (2)

 

Furthermore, it is important to remark that women, as men, can have different points of view about the same topics, even though they belong to the same era. This way, some are more concerned about religion than others are, and the vision of death, love, family… can change from one to another.

 

Therefore, the question that we will try to answer is the following: had Browning and Rossetti the same ideas in mind about Love and Death just because they both were women who belonged to the Victorian era?

 

A useful starting point for answering this question is to pay attention to their biographies.

 

Browning and Rossetti’s biographies

 

 

If we take a look to their earlier days we can observe that they had a lot of points in common.

As we have said, they both belonged to the same period: Elizabeth Barrett Browning was born in 1806 and lived some important years of her life in London; and Christina Rossetti was born in London in 1830 (3), only 24 years after Browning. (4)

 

 

In their first years, they both had a brilliant education.

On the one hand, since she was a teenager, Browning was very interested in culture in general: she read the classics and studied philosophy, history and literatures. Moreover, she had different languages and translated important works. Her first poems were written when she was only eight years old and she published a long Homeric poem when she was fourteen called “The Battle of Marathon”. (5)

 

Similarly, Christina Rossetti was also grown up in at atmosphere of culture and in a home that encouraged the arts. Her father was Gabriel Rossetti, an Italian very involved not only in arts and poetry but also in politics. Her mother was also involved in arts and her brother Dante Gabriel Rossetti was a very important influence for her, since he was a very recognised poet and painter. Furthermore, Rossetti’s house was a meeting point for Italian exiles that debated about politics, freedom, religion, arts and poetry before the children, who little by little formed their personal point of view about life and culture. (6)

 

However, this similar atmosphere is not the point that made these two poets so close.

Elizabeth Barrett Browning and Christina Rossetti had a very important point in common: they both suffered different serious illnesses since they were really young and this fact is reflected along all their artistic production.

In the first place, when she was very young, doctors found in Browning a nervous disorder and she began to take opium. Some years later, she had problems with her lungs and she had to stay in bed for five years, being considerate as a semi-invalid and seeing only a few close relatives during this time.

On the other hand, Christina Rossetti suffered also different illnesses from her teen ages, like throat infections, vomits, and heart problems that made her feel exhausted all the time. Moreover, she contracted an illness called Graves’s disease, which disfigured her face and made her skin darker. Some years later, she was diagnosed Cancer.

 

After knowing all these details of their biographies, the reader might think that they both will have very similar thoughts and feelings, and therefore, a similar way of writing. However this is not true and we will prove it by analysing some poems of these two authors.

 

Love

 

Let us start by showing two poems where Browning and Rossetti are talking about love.

 

In the first place, we have chosen the Sonnet XLIII of a collection of poems called “Sonnets from the Portuguese”, written by Elizabeth Barrett Browning.

SONNET XLIII

How do I love thee?  Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.
I love thee to the level of everyday's
Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints,--I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life!--and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death. (7)

 

This sonnet is just an example of the others written in this period (around 1850) when Elizabeth B. and Robert Browning, another important poet, began their relationship by writing letters to each other.

 

In this poem, we can clearly see how a woman is describing all the ways of love she is feeling for her lover.

This way, she describes all her feelings from her deeper insights “to the depth and breadth and height/ my soul can reach”; to her everyday life “I love thee to the level of every day’s/ Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight.”

Another verse very important to remark is “I love thee/ with the passion put to use In my old griefs”. I think that this sentence is a key to understand the sense of the poem. Here, Elizabeth is confessing that before knowing her lover she was only worried about her illnesses, she had not hopes or wishes and her mind was only worried about how to face the physical pain that she was a victim of. However, now that she has a reason to write, (her love for Robert), she is able to dedicate all her inner strength and creativity to her love. As Paul Turner, rightly from my point of view, says, the love that Elizabeth felt for Robert Browning transformed her “from a house-bound invalid into a tolerably healthy and active woman” (8). And this fact is completely reflected in this poem.

 

In the next verses, “I love thee with a love I seemed to lose / With my lost saints”, she can be making reference to her mother and brother, who died some years before she wrote this poem. Therefore, she declares that the love she thought lost forever has found a new receiver.

Finally, the poem ends by saying that she will love him after death in the same way if God decides that she has to die. (“if God choose, / I shall but love thee better after death”)

It is impossible to understand Elizabeth poetry without paying attention to her love relationship, since it is said that all her sonnets of the collection “Sonnets from the Portuguese” were a present for Robert Browning, who she finally married. As it seems, Elizabeth and Robert corresponded each other for some years before getting married, and only some months after this, Elizabeth showed her poems to their addressee. (9)

 

After analysing the poem, I think that two aspects need to be emphasized.

First, I want to remark that with her poetry, E. Browning is breaking the role of the silent women who along the history were only the object of adoration: she, as a woman, is talking with her own voice and claiming that she loves a man over anything else: family, religion, death… and with her entire self.

The other important aspect is that Elizabeth poetry will be more appreciated for a reader who knows about her biography and therefore is able to understand the salvation that finding a true love in a man supposed to a woman who had been semi-invalid for years.

 

Let us continue now by commenting a poem by Christina Rossetti where the author is talking about the same topic: love.

 

The work I have selected is “Trust me”, the poem nº6 of her “Monna Innominata”, that we can find in the “Second Series” of her poems. (10)

TRUST ME

Trust me, I have not earned your dear rebuke,

I love, as you would have me, God the most.
Would lose not him, but you, must one be lost,
Nor with
Lot's wife cast back a faithless look

Unready to forego what I forsook.
This say I, having counted up the cost;
This, though 't be the feeblest of God's host,
The sorriest sheep Christ shepherds with his crook,

Yet, while I love my God the most, I deem
That I can never love you over much:
I love him more, so let me love you too;

Yea, as I apprehend it, love is such
I cannot love you if I love not Him,
I cannot love Him if I love not you. (11)

 

If we take a look to this poem, we will realize that love is seen from a different point of view by Rossetti.

In the poem we have selected we can see perfectly how God is always in her mind.

 

In the first lines, we realize that the author is talking to her lover about the feelings she has for God. He will always be the first thing for her and she confesses that if she was obliged to choose between God and her lover, she will choose God without doubts.

 

As the Victorian web points out, the poet was an extremely devout Christian, and all her religious ideas affected every work she created (12). This way, she mixes love and religion, establishing always a line that put God in the highest place of her personal “ranking”, being always defeated her love for a human being against her love for God: God must come first.

 

However, in the next lines, Rossetti declares that her love for God does not mean that she cannot love her lover too (“I love him more, so let me love you too”), that is solved in the end of the poem with this statement:

 

I cannot love you if I love not Him,
I cannot love Him if I love not you.

 

 In theses lines, we can see the whole idea of the poem summed up: the poet points out that she will be able to love her lover only with the strength that God gives her; so, she needs God first in order to love her lover. This way, she establishes an invisible chain between God and her lover, being both necessary for her, but giving always priority to God.

 

This poem is just an example of the collection “Monna Innominata”, that Rossetti wrote in a moment of her personal life when she had to decide for the second time in her life between her love for God and her love  for a human being who did not shared the same religious beliefs than her. At the first time, Christina broke her relationship with her future husband (they were already engaged), James Collison, who was Catholic and did not share exactly the same beliefs as the author.

At the second time, Rossetti fell in love again, with Charles Carley, a linguist friend of Christina’s brother, and it is thought that the sonnets of “Monna Innominata” could be written because of him.

This time, Carley was agnostic and Christina felt that she had to leave him because of that, keeping for herself a feeling of frustration and pain that would be also reflected in other sonnets of this collection (13).

The conclusion that we can make up after analysing this poem is the following: Christina Rossetti gives always priority to God over anything else, even over her love longing as a woman.

 

The difference between one author and another is clear in this topic.

On the one hand, E. Barrett Browning claims that her first priority in life is her lover, who she loves over anything else. Her love for him comes only from he himself and from her insights and she needs nothing else if she is sure of her lover’s love.

On the other hand, we can realize that for Christina Rossetti love cannot be seen separately from God: He is her priority and the love that she is able to feel for another person comes directly from the strength that God gives her.

 

Death

 

The next topic I consider important to compare in these two authors is the way they face death, a topic very discussed in the Victorian era that takes an outstanding place in the works of these two women because of their proximity with it due to their illnesses and suffering.

 

On the one hand, I have chosen the sonnet XXIII from “Sonnets from the Portuguese” in order to illustrate Elizabeth B. Browning’s point of view.

SONNET XXIII

 

Is it indeed so? If I lay here dead,

Wouldst thou miss any life in losing mine?

And would the sun for thee more coldly shine

Because of grave-damps falling round my head?

I marveled, my Beloved, when I read

Thy thought so in the letter. I am thine--

But...so much to thee? Can I pour your wine

While my hands tremble? Then my soul, instead

Of dreams of death, resumes life's lower range.

Then, love me, Love! Look on me--breathe on me!

As brighter ladies do not count it strange,

For love, to give up acres and degree,

I yield the grave for thy sake, and exchange

My near sweet view of Heaven, for earth with thee! (14)

 

 

The poem begins with two questions that Elizabeth asks to her lover, wondering if it is true that if she dies someone would really feel painful without her in the world. After making sure of this, she keeps on by answering this question: “Can I pour your wine / While my hands tremble?” I think that this question cannot be dismissed because it is making reference to an important fact of her biography: this “trembling” that she mentions has to do with her illnesses and with her feeling of weakness before her lover.

 

The next lines are the most important of the poem, since they give the whole a complete meaning. With the words “Then my soul, instead / Of dreams of death, resumes life's lower range” she is refusing her wishes of death in order to continue a painful life just because she knows that her lover would suffer if she leaves the earth.

Due to this statement we can say that Elizabeth B. Browning was a woman who thought about death but we can also say that she refused all these ideas thanks to the love she felt for her lover. Therefore, we could think that she found in love a reason to defeat her everyday sufferings.

 

In the last verses of this poem, the same idea is repeated again. Now she is making reference to people who changed their love for a better position in life, and she compared them with herself who is changing death for a life full of love besides her lover, as she says in the last two lines of the poem: “I yield the grave for thy sake, and exchange / My near sweet view of Heaven, for earth with thee!”.

 

As a conclusion, after having commented the poem, we can point out that Elizabeth Barrett Browning shows that her hopes of dying are defeated with the love she feels and with the love she receives from her lover, and therefore she exchanges her wish of leaving by the wish of her lover of her staying beside him in earth.

 

On the other hand, I have chosen the poem “If Only” by Christina Rossetti, a poem that we can find in her Devotional Pieces. I have selected this work In order to show how she deals with Death and how she gives priority to God over anything else again.

 

IF ONLY

 

If I might only love my God and die!

But now He bids me love Him and live on,

Now when the bloom of all my life is gone,

The pleasant half of life has quite gone by.

My tree of hope is lopped that spread so high,

And I forget how summer glowed and shone,

While autumn grips me with its fingers wan

And frets me with its fitful windy sigh.

When autumn passes then must winter numb,

And winter may not pass a weary while,

But when it passes spring shall flower again;

And in that spring who weepeth now shall smile,

Yea, they shall wax who now are on the wane,

                                         Yea, they shall sing for love when Christ shall come. (15)

 

From my point of view, the key to understand the poem and therefore Rossetti’s mind is in the first lines:

 

If I might only love my God and die!

But now He bids me love Him and live on,

 

In these two lines, Rossetti is expressing her hopes of dying and finally meeting God, but she points out that God makes her keep going with her life and therefore she feels obligated to go on living.

With these two verses we realize two important aspects. On the one hand, Rossetti’s inclination to death; and, on the other hand, God influence over this inclination: Christina Rossetti refuses her ideas of leaving human world to satisfy God, so we can say that she finds the reason to keep going in her religious beliefs.

In the next lines, we can find her reason for wanting an end for her days: she is in the middle of her life (around forty years old) and she thinks that she has already lived all the good experiences that life offers, so there is not reason to going on except God.

In the rest of the poem, Rossetti uses a metaphorical language that we will try to explain.

First of all she says that “my tree of hope is lopped and spread so high” that stands for her wishes and hopes in life, and what she expected to live (the tree spread so high) but finally she did not (now the tree is curved).

Then, she uses the seasons to talk about the different stages of life.

First of all she talks about summer, the earlier days and youth, when all “glowed and shone”, that is to say, the happier days. Then she names autumn, her present stage, and next she talks about the future speaking about winter, the last days.

At the end of the poem we see how she talks about the last season: Spring, which we can identify with death, as far as she points out that this is the stage when all sufferings will disappear and where people finally meet God.

To sump up, this means that in order to make it to spring (the meeting with God), we have to pass not only summer (the youth), but also autumn (the middle stage) and winter (the old age).

After having analysed piece by piece the poem we can conclude that for Rossetti God was the only reason to keep on living because to meet him she had to live not only her earlier days but also her old age, in order to finally meet God as a reward for all her sufferings over the years.

 

Now that we have commented two poems of these authors where they talk about death, the difference between Browning and Rossetti before this topic is also very clear.

Since for Browning the only reason to keep on living and forget her illnesses and sufferings is her lover and her feelings of love towards another human being, Rossetti finds a reason for going on in God and she feels obligated to live in order to deserve Heaven and God acceptation.

 

Conclusion

 

After having analyzing these two authors through the main topics of their poetry and after having exemplified this with two poems of both authors, I think that now we are able to solve the question that we raised at the beginning of the paper, that was if E. Barrett Browning and Christina Rossetti had the same points of view about life and deal with the topics in the same way just because they both belonged to the Victorian Era.

 

The answer is clearly negative since even though they are speaking about the same topics, they have a different conception of them.

 

On the one hand, we have seen through the Sonnet XLIII from Sonnets from the Portuguese, by E. Barrret Browning; and through Trust Me, by Christina Rossetti, how they deal with love.

This way, we have seen that while for Elizabeth Browning the most important thing in the world is his lover and the love she can give and receive from him, for Rossetti the most important thing is God and her beliefs and she would leave her love if he do not understand and share her religious values.

 

On the other hand, we have seen through the Sonnet XXIII by Browning and by the poem If Only by Rossetti that they face death in two different ways.

On the one hand, Browning keeps on living to satisfy her lover and to enjoy the love she is feeling. Due to this love, she is able to forget her worries about her pain and illnesses and focus all her strength in her lover.

On the other hand, Rossetti’s religious beliefs and her hope of meeting God as a reward for her sufferings in Earth are the reason for continuing living even though she feels that the good days of her life are gone.

 

The final conclusion of this paper is now clear: Browning and Rossetti are two different women with different conceptions of Love and Death and these differences are summed up in the answers that these poets would give to this question: is love for a human being stronger than love for God?

Evidently, while Browning would agree, Rossetti would not.

 

 

 

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Pictures:

Picture of E.B. Browning from: View Images Beta. 10 January 1008. http://www.viewimages.com/Search.aspx?mid=3070266&epmid=3&partner=Google

Picture of Christina Rossetti from : Smith, Gwen D. 10 January. http://www.library.unt.edu/rarebooks/exhibits/women/default.asp

Last Picture: Illustration made by Dante Gabriel Rossetti for a book written by Christina Rossetti: Smith, Gwen D. 10 January. http://www.library.unt.edu/rarebooks/exhibits/women/default.asp