INTRODUCTION.
After considering the historic page, and viewing the living world with
anxious solicitude, the most melancholy emotions of sorrowful indignation have
depressed my spirits, and I have sighed when obliged to confess, that either
nature has made a great difference between man and man, or that the
civilization, which has hitherto taken place in the world, has been very
partial. I have turned over various
books written on the subject of education, and patiently
observed the conduct of parents and the management of schools; but what has
been the result? a profound conviction, that the
neglected education of my fellow creatures is the grand source of the misery I
deplore; and that women in particular, are rendered weak and wretched by a
variety of concurring causes, originating from one hasty conclusion. The conduct and manners of women, in fact,
evidently prove, that their minds are not in a healthy state; for, like the
flowers that are
planted in too rich a soil, strength and usefulness are sacrificed to beauty;
and the flaunting leaves, after having pleased a fastidious eye, fade,
disregarded on the stalk, long before the season when they ought to have
arrived at maturity. One cause of this
barren blooming I attribute to a false system of education, gathered from the
books written on this subject by men, who, considering females rather as women
than human creatures, have been more anxious to make them alluring mistresses than
rational wives; and the understanding of the sex has been so bubbled by this
specious homage, that the civilized women of the present century, with a few
exceptions, are only anxious to inspire love, when they ought to cherish a
nobler ambition, and by their abilities and virtues exact respect.
In a treatise, therefore, on female rights and manners, the works which
have been particularly written for their improvement must not be overlooked;
especially when it is asserted, in direct terms, that the minds of women are
enfeebled by false refinement; that the books of instruction, written by men of
genius, have had the same tendency as more frivolous productions; and that, in
the true style of Mahometanism, they are only
considered as females, and not as a part of the human species, when improvable
reason is allowed to be the dignified distinction, which raises men above the brute
creation, and puts a natural sceptre in a feeble
hand.
Yet, because I am a woman, I would not lead my readers to suppose, that I
mean violently to agitate the contested question respecting the equality and
inferiority of the sex; but as the subject lies in my way, and I cannot pass it
over without subjecting the main tendency of my reasoning to misconstruction, I
shall stop a moment to deliver, in a few words, my opinion. In the government of the physical world, it
is observable that the female, in general, is inferior to the male. The male pursues, the female yields--this is the
law of nature; and it does not appear to be suspended or abrogated in favour of woman.
This physical superiority cannot be denied--and it is a noble
prerogative! But not content with this natural
pre-eminence, men endeavour to sink us still lower,
merely to render us alluring objects for a moment; and women, intoxicated by
the adoration which men, under the influence of their senses, pay them, do not
seek to obtain a durable interest in their hearts, or to become the friends of
the fellow creatures who find amusement in their society.
I am aware of an obvious inference: from every quarter have I heard exclamations
against masculine women; but where are they to be found? If, by this appellation, men mean to inveigh
against their ardour in hunting, shooting, and
gaming, I shall most cordially join in the cry; but if it be, against the
imitation of manly virtues, or, more properly speaking, the attainment of those
talents and virtues, the exercise of which ennobles the human character, and
which raise females in the scale of animal being, when they are comprehensively
termed mankind--all those who view them with a philosophical eye must, I should
think, wish with me, that they may every day grow more and more masculine.
This discussion naturally divides the subject. I shall first consider women in the grand
light of human creatures, who, in common with men, are
placed on this earth to unfold their faculties; and afterwards I shall more
particularly point out their peculiar designation.
I wish also to steer clear of an error, which many respectable writers have
fallen into; for the instruction which has hitherto been addressed to women,
has rather been applicable to LADIES, if the little indirect advice, that is
scattered through Sandford and Merton, be excepted;
but, addressing my sex in a firmer tone, I pay particular attention to those in
the middle class, because they appear to be in the most natural state. Perhaps the seeds of false refinement,
immorality, and vanity have ever been shed by the great. Weak, artificial beings raised above the
common wants and affections of their race, in a premature unnatural manner, undermine
the very foundation of virtue, and spread corruption through the whole mass of
society! As a class of mankind they have
the strongest claim to pity! the education of the rich
tends to render them vain and helpless, and the unfolding mind is not strengthened
by the practice of those duties which dignify the human character. They only live to amuse themselves, and by
the same law which in nature invariably produces certain effects, they soon
only afford barren amusement.
But as I purpose taking a separate view of the different ranks of society,
and of the moral character of women, in each, this hint is, for the present,
sufficient; and I have only alluded to the subject, because it appears to me to
be the very essence of an introduction to give a cursory account of the
contents of the work it introduces.
My own sex, I hope, will excuse me, if I treat them like rational creatures,
instead of flattering their FASCINATING graces, and viewing them as if they
were in a state of perpetual childhood, unable to stand alone. I earnestly wish to point out in what true dignity
and human happiness consists--I wish to persuade women to endeavour
to acquire strength, both of mind and body, and to convince them, that the soft
phrases, susceptibility of heart, delicacy of sentiment, and refinement of taste,
are almost synonymous with epithets of weakness, and that those beings who are only
the objects of pity and that kind of love, which has been termed its sister,
will soon become objects of contempt.
Dismissing then those pretty feminine phrases, which the men condescendingly
use to soften our slavish dependence, and despising that weak elegancy of mind,
exquisite sensibility, and sweet docility of manners, supposed to be the sexual
characteristics of the weaker vessel, I wish to show that elegance is inferior
to virtue, that the first object of laudable ambition is to obtain a character
as a human being, regardless of the distinction of sex; and that secondary
views should be brought to this simple touchstone.
This is a rough sketch of my plan; and should I express my conviction with
the energetic emotions that I feel whenever I think of the subject, the
dictates of experience and reflection will be felt by some of my readers. Animated by this important object, I shall
disdain to cull my phrases or polish my style--I aim at being useful, and
sincerity will render me unaffected; for wishing rather to persuade by the
force of my arguments, than dazzle by the elegance of my language, I shall not
waste my time in rounding periods, nor in fabricating the turgid bombast of
artificial feelings, which, coming from the head, never reach the heart. I shall be employed about things, not words! and, anxious to render my sex more respectable members of
society, I shall try to avoid that flowery diction which has slided from essays into novels, and from novels into
familiar letters and conversation.
These pretty nothings, these caricatures of the real beauty of sensibility,
dropping glibly from the tongue, vitiate the taste, and create a kind of sickly
delicacy that turns away from simple unadorned truth; and a deluge of false
sentiments and over-stretched feelings, stifling the natural emotions of the heart,
render the domestic pleasures insipid, that ought to sweeten the exercise of
those severe duties, which educate a rational and immortal being for a nobler
field of action.
The education of women has, of late, been more attended to than formerly;
yet they are still reckoned a frivolous sex, and ridiculed or pitied by the
writers who endeavour by satire or instruction to
improve them. It is acknowledged that
they spend many of the first years of their lives in acquiring a smattering of accomplishments: meanwhile, strength of body and mind are sacrificed
to libertine notions of beauty, to the desire of establishing themselves, the
only way women can rise in the world--by
marriage. And this desire making mere
animals of them, when they marry, they act as such children may be expected to
act: they dress; they paint, and nickname God's creatures. Surely these weak beings are only fit for the
seraglio! Can they govern a family, or
take care of the poor babes whom they bring into the world?
If then it can be fairly deduced from the present conduct of the sex, from
the prevalent fondness for pleasure, which takes place of ambition and those
nobler passions that open and enlarge the soul; that the instruction which
women have received has only tended, with the constitution of civil society, to
render them insignificant objects of desire; mere propagators of fools! if it can
be proved, that in aiming to accomplish them, without cultivating their
understandings, they are taken out of their sphere of duties, and made
ridiculous and useless when the short lived bloom of beauty is over*, I presume
that RATIONAL men will excuse me for endeavouring to
persuade them to become more masculine and respectable.
Indeed the word masculine is only a bugbear: there is little reason to fear that women
will acquire too much courage or fortitude; for their apparent inferiority with
respect to bodily strength, must render them, in some degree, dependent on men
in the various relations of life; but why should it be increased by prejudices
that give a sex to virtue, and confound simple truths with sensual reveries?
Women are, in fact, so much degraded by mistaken notions of female excellence,
that I do not mean to add a paradox when I assert, that this artificial
weakness produces a propensity to tyrannize, and gives birth to cunning, the
natural opponent of strength, which leads them to play off those contemptible
infantile airs that undermine esteem even whilst they excite desire. Do not foster these prejudices, and they will
naturally fall into their subordinate, yet respectable station in life.
It seems scarcely necessary to say, that I now speak of the sex in general. Many individuals have more sense than their
male relatives; and, as nothing preponderates where there is a constant struggle
for an equilibrium, without it has naturally more gravity, some women govern
their husbands without degrading themselves, because intellect will always
govern.